On Not Being So Naive

I put together a list of all the things learned thus far about discernment and genuine healthy vs connections. For any new connections it can sometimes be similar to dating.  There may be an instant attraction, comfort, and or sense of knowing.  This part is exciting as it triggers endorphins.  Feeling safe in being yourself is something that we have to both learn and heal to achieve as a state of being, not as a conditional response to external factors.  Therefore be yourself, be open but do so without expectations. There is a difference between having standards and setting expectations. Standards are boundaries, expectations are bets. We expect someone to be something without knowing anything about them. Creating a lasting Read More

The Darth Vader Path

Fear is one of the greatest challenges to human evolution – some of the strongest and most gifted are among the ones to get stuck crown deep in the quicksand of fear. I often use Luke Sky Walker and Dark Vader as the perfect examples of the two roads an individual can go when powerfully connected.  If fear, defense, judgement, mistrust, control, power and anger become your driving force – then you have gone into the dark side.  If on the flip side you are driven by love, empathy, discernment, wholeness, Integrity and understanding then you are walking the path of consciousness. Being highly empathic is excruciatingly difficult at times  in a world of such polarized duality.  There are lessons Read More


There is a defining moment for every healer in which the limit of how far into the human psyche one can go, without becoming a little unhinged yourself, is reached.   A moment where something just feels a little too dark, too hopeless, or too far gone. I haven’t reached that limit yet.  Although there have been moment in which I questioned whether I should go any further.   The reason I have continued to venture further further is because somewhere a long the path, I came across a monumental Truth.   This single Truth is the answer to every single situation no matter how challenging. The truth is…… Fear  Nothing else but Fear dominates these darker realms; and Fear is the master Read More

Mental Rubik’s Cube

I take on Psychology like it’s a mental Rubik’s cube. Everyone’s psyche is like a whole universe of it’s own. I remember as a kid enjoying puzzles and demystifying things.  I knew without knowing that the key to unlocking the secret to anything was in it’s understanding.   What I mean by understanding is – having a deeper knowing of a thing’s nature and or essence. When you understand a Rubik’s cube then you knew how to bring it back to it’s original state no matter how many times it got twisted. Within the psyche there are different layering dimensions.   However everything in existence has patterns and ways of moving that is specific to it’s nature.  This is true for emotions and Read More